
For those of you who have been following me from way back, you might remember that every year my husband's side of the family goes camping and I opt to stay home for a little "alone time". Well, the event has come and gone...and now without it's interesting twists and turns.
This year was going to be a little different... since they were going to be gone for an entire week, I would be joining them for the last two nights.
The day before I would be going, I drove down to retrieve my mom, who would be letting our lab in and out and feeding her. It was with much trepidation that I went with this plan, seeing that she is up in years and our lab can be boisterous. But amazingly, our big brutesss has been very gentle around Mom, just as she has been the past few years with the girls...as if sensing she must be.
So then, my mom and I went on to have a nice, relaxing visit watching old movies and visiting for a day or so and the next evening my husband dropped over after putting in one day at work to pick me, my suitcase and sleeping bag up and away we went.
All the nights leading up to then, I would talk to my family on the phone and blow kisses to my girls at bedtime. A few of those nights had my youngest in tears because she missed me so much...so needless to say, I was really looking forward to seeing my girls and holding them tight. When we drove into the campsite at last, the girls came running when they saw me...all of us SO happy to be together again...so much so, that my sweet littlest actually cried happy tears...just melted my heart!
That night in the tent, it was a bit hard to sleep...I kept waking to hear a raccoon family who seemed to like visiting throughout the night. Followed by loud shrieking jays and crows in the wee hours of the morning. Now, I am actually a bird lover...but these things were a bit obnoxious to a gal trying to get her beauty sleep.
So, all day I was kind of going on fumes, but we still had some good times visiting with all the relatives, having ice cream at the Tillamook Cheese Factory,

touring a light house,

and watching the children play on the beach.


The weather that Saturday was nice...fairly warm with sun breaks followed by a pleasent evening around the campfire with everyone...
But sadly, the weather wouldn't last...
And neither, apparently, would the munchies that my youngest had eaten that day.
Yes...unfortunately, my little munchkin was sick ALL night in the tent on that very last night. And though I as the mommy am usually the main caretaker, this time my husband graciously took over after the first couple times while I escaped to sleep the rest of the night scrunched up in the backseat. Needless to say, we were all miserable.
As we emerged that morning (our sick little one was still sleeping after her rough night so we placed her into the back seat) we joined the rest of the family packing up our tents and gear...
In the pouring rain.
Only we had some nasty, messy items to also deal with from our tent. :(
Fast-forward two days...and little one is better. But now picture Mommy and Daddy taking turns running to the bathroom all evening and night. Not a pretty sight, is it? Ugh.
Somehow...our ten year old escaped the brunt of the 24 hour flu that ravaged the rest of us.
But unfortunately, the same couldn't be said for my mom. Although within two hours of arriving home from our camping trip, I drove her right home without her even touching our sick one, somehow she couldn't escape it.
The same night my husband and I were suffering, she was too...and ended up calling an ambulance! She was hospitalized most of the week but is thankfully home and doing well now.
What positive thing could come out of all of this horribleness, you ask? Well, for one thing, God has used it as a wake-up call for us to quit procrastinating and get my mom moved up here right away. We'll be looking at temporary apartments close to our home so that she is not living alone so far away from us.
After finally joining in on the big family camp out this year, will this catastrophe keep me away again for another yet four years?
It's a big question...but as everyone pointed out, sickness rarely invades the family camp outs...this was a rarity (and of course, just the year I'd go!) ;)
And I might...just might...be persuaded to go back next year...
if we had one of these...









18 comments:
Nothing worse than being sick away from home.
Susan
Oh Wow...not fun. That came on you quick didn't it. Glad you can look at the bright side somewhat.
Oh Tammy! How awful to get that flu bug while camping. Your poor little one must have been so miserable! Glad you all are on the mend now. Yes, I truly believe that God has a way of gently prodding us to get things done that we should. I do hope you can find a nice apartment for your mom really soon. xoxoxo
I'm so glad your mom is doing okay - and I know you'll rest much easier when she's close by.
I can tell you without a doubt that I would not be going camping - unless maybe in a very nice RV. But imagine if somebody got sick in that beautiful piece of equipment!
You do have the most adventurous trips!
OMGoodness... so sorry. That really WAS rough! Glad your mom came through it OK and that you all are past the yuckies.
Camping not my cup of tea but you are a brave woman for going. Sorry you were not feeling well.
I'm so sorry that you guys were sick while on holidays, but love the lighthouse tour and the other things you got to do.
There's a silver lining in every cloud but sometimes it's hard to find it. I admire your positive outlook on things.
Have a great week.
Blessings,
Mary
I vote for the RV -- my tent days are over.
Nothing worse than being sick... except sick in a tent. argh.
Good morning dear Tammy:-)
I'm so glad you were able to join your family for the last two days of camping but oh my, what a time you had! Nothing worse than being sick and/or not being able to sleep while camping. No doubt the rain didn't help matters much either! I remember one year when I was about 10 years old...we had gone camping with our tent trailer and mom had just finished setting up the kitchen tent with all the food and accessories when this storm suddenly occured and the winds were so strong, it practically ripped the kitchen tent apart. When it was all over with, there was food everywhere, bottles broken, etc. Mom just sat there and cried! I think I'd have done the same...with 5 kids and a mess like that, who wants to continue camping! lol
Hopefully you're all feeling much better now!! xoxo
Bless your hearts, Tammy! That does sound like a miserable time. I'm so sorry about your little one and your mother.
I remember a camping trip when I was younger where it rained the WHOLE time and the mud would squoosh between our feet and our tents leaked! I was a teenager and boy what a trip!
Hope everyone is doing better! Tell Allyson we said hi too!
Tammy (the other one that doesn't camp in tents anymore) :)
Isn't true that we wish for "me" time and a break from our kids, but then when it comes, we're heart-broken!
I wish you the best in dealing with your Mom. We spent the past 3 years moving both of our living parents to newer, better, closer places. It's a HUGE job. Take it slowly. :~D
Yes, that rig would be about my speed for camping too! LOL. Sorry for the sickness on this trip. That is no fun. And how scary to have your mom get that sick with the flu. Glad she is on the mend and I'm sure you guys will feel much better once she is closer.
EEEK.....Sorry, Ms. Tammy.
Love, Joy =D
P.S. That's the most beautiful carp kite! We love kites. :~D
I applaud you for simply going camping. I wouldn't. To have to deal with the sickness while camping--you are a hero!
So glad everyone is well, and I hope you are able to find a good place for your mom!
That camping trip sure turned miserable. SO sorry. I pray all future trips will be lots of fun and no flu.
I hope you can get your mom close by soon.
Hey there, I read an article in HSE called "Learning from the journey" and I emailed Jonathan to let you know I liked it. He gave me your blog address,and your beach photo looks so familiar. Our family just moved to INdiana this year from Oregon, is that where this is? We lived in Coos Bay and Sherwood and SO miss it. Blessings, CHrista
www.christasterken.wordpress.com
So sorry to hear about all the sickies. No fun. And glad your mom's ok.
I agree. Camping is more fun with a camper.
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