Monday, June 23, 2008

20 years...


Today marks the 20th anniversary of my dad's passing...so hard to believe that it has been this long.
I so wish my husband could have met him- in a few ways, they are so much alike.
And I wish my little girls could have known him, too...I know my dad would have been simply in love with them.

I wrote a little more detail on his life- and especially his life with my mom- last August during what would have been my parent's golden anniversary, had he lived. My dad, like David in the Bible, was a man who made some mistakes in his life, yet was "a man after God's own heart".

Here are a few pictures of him though the years...just tiny glimpses of the man who was my daddy and slipped out of my life all too soon...






I miss you, Dad...

25 comments:

Unknown said...

What a touching post~ I did not know my real father until I was 24.
You were Blessed.
Have a great evening. Lisa~

Susie said...

This post touched my heart dear Tammy..
I can certainly understand how much you would have loved for your Dad to know your husband and girls.
I believe he is smiling down and very pleased with the life you live.
Cherish those memories!
xoxo

Nadine said...

It's been 19 years since my dad passed away. I totally understand the missing him part.

Yours was a lovely tribute to your dad. I loved seeing the pictures. He had a nice smile, especially when he was holding you.

Dawn said...

I love that last picture especially - your girls look so much like you! I am sorry you lost him so soon. I am blessed to still have mine around and close.

Corrie said...

What a sweet post.
Thank you so much for sharing those beautiful pictures!

Tammy ~ Country Girl at Home ~ said...

Tammy,

I have a big lump in my throat and tears in my eyes! I can imagine how you must miss him and understand how you would have wanted your girls to know and love him too!

Thanks for sharing the pictures and words about your dad!

~ Tammy

Anonymous said...

You were (are) blessed. :o)

Anonymous said...

My Dad passed away 9 years ago and I know it hurts.You have wonderful memories to hold you.
Take care,
Diane

gail@more than a song said...

I remember some of those pictures when you posted them before; isn't it something how time passes and you realize how long it's been. Sweet post Tammy.

Rose of Sharon said...

What a lovely tribute to your father. How sad. He sounds like a wonderful man. I would be sad too that he never met your husband or daughters, but all of you will be together again in heaven. God bless you Tammy.

Hugs, Sharon

Anonymous said...

What a beautiful post. Thanks for sharing it with us!

Jill said...

Oh Tammy, I know how much you miss him. August will be 12 years that my dad's been gone. I just simply cannot believe it's been that long. I love the photos. I can tell he had a zest for life and a big place in his heart for his little girl.

Nancy said...

Tammy the love you have for your dad is so precious and such great memories you have. This is a great tribute to a man that meant so much to you and I'm glad I had the opportunity to know about him through your blog. This will help keep his memory alive for others, especially for your girls!

Midlife Mom said...

Tammy, that was such a beautiful post about your Dad. The pictures are wonderful! I'm so sorry you didn't have him longer in your life. It should make us that still have our Dad's appreciate it even more, this was a good reminder, thank you!!!!

Linda said...

What a lovely tribute to your Dad, Tammy. I looked at the pictures with a heart touched by how much you miss him and a knowledge of how blessed I am to still have my Dad with us.

.Tom Kapanka said...

I was moved by this tribute. We don't know each other (except through occasional comments) and yet each time I read here there is so much in common.

It is no coincidence that your husband reminds you in ways of your father... =)

Michelle said...

what a wonderful tribute to your dad, I was moved by this post as were so many others.

Susanne said...

What a lovely tribute, Tammy. Your love for your Dad shines right through. I'm sure he would be very proud of the wonderful mom you have become.

I love looking at those old snapshots.

Justabeachkat said...

Wow...what a great tribute to your Dad. I lost mine years ago, but still wish he was here.

Hugs!
Kat

Kelli said...

What a wonderful and sweet tribute post, Tammy. What a special man your father was. (((hugs)))
~Kelli

Dawn said...

I was thinking of your comment about being 45 and not having held an out of the home job for very long - I was 45 when I started this one. I thought I'd have to work to 65 to be able to retire. I feel blessed to be able to stop now, while I'm still in good health and able to enjoy it. I taught for two years, was a secretary for 5 or so, then stayed at home for a long time, loving the whole time. But this has been a good place to work and I am surprised at my end emotions.
I'm grateful to the faculty person who thought up this little get-together. I don't know if it was her idea, but it feels a bit better than just walking out the door!

Pamela said...

Isn't it something how the little things remind us of them

Susie Q said...

Such a beautiful and moving tribute to you precious Dad. I truly believe he is watching over you and your family. He is so pleased with the woman you have become and the life you lead.
He was obviously a proud and loving father...and he is with you still.
I send my love and higs to you dear Tammy.

Oh! In my giveaway, you won the box of chocolates! I sguess you missed that! I need your address so I can send the box your way!

Love,
Sue

Garden State Kate said...

I lost my Mom 20 years ago, so your post really touched me.
Thank you for stopping by my blog,
it is always nice to "meet" another homeschooling family.

Anonymous said...

May all the men in our lives seek after God's heart, even amidst the poor choices they may be making.

Your Daddy was a much loved man!