Friday, October 03, 2008

Show and Tell #22




Since I've been lately talking about how wonderful the Christian movie, Fireproof, is...and how it, in turn, has caused my husband and I to focus in on our marriage this week...

I wanted to share with you something I found in the back of my cupboards last week. Do you remember my last Show and Tell, where I furiously cleaned out and organized my art and food pantry?

Well, this precious item is one of the things I found in the very back...

Yes, there they were... looking a little tired from being shoved and forgotten, a little in need of some tender loving care and attention, but nevertheless, still hanging on to each other.

This couple- who stood proud and strong on top of our wedding cake in April of 1995- seem to speak volumes to me.
Although marriage isn't always wonderful 365 days a year, when we turn the focus back onto our spouse instead of each looking to their own needs, love can endure and even grow.

All this couple needs is a little love and attention...and they'll be looking beautiful again.

On top of my piano sits another special item from our wedding...our unity candle...

How often, in the day to day grind, can we forget these simple and well-known words:
"To Love and To Cherish, from this day forward"

It doesn't mean to love and cherish during the honeymoon period, but from this day forward. This sometimes takes conscience effort as the years go by.

But we're finding out- it so worth it.

Col 3:12-14
Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.


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I know I said I'd be revealing my giveaway in the next post, but since I want to take more time with it, please allow me to wait one more post.
But because I feel guilty, let me at least tell you that it will something kitchen related.

As far as my home school show and tell idea, hmmm...not seeing too much interest quite yet. (My last post probably was a world record for the least amount of comments!)
But I do realize that most of my dearest bloggy friends happen not to be home schoolers!

So...sniff, sniff...I'll try not to take it personally. Really.
WAAAH!!!!


Seriously, I do have some fun ideas concerning this (if only I knew how to make one of those cute buttons- I so want to try that!)
I'll keep you posted (um, the one or two others of you out there who are sorta' kinda' interested) ;)- and promise, promise, promise to reveal my giveaway next time!!!

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For more Show and Tell, please visit Kelli at There is No Place Like Home.

37 comments:

Kelli said...

Hi Tammy! I enjoyed seeing your special wedding treasures. Your cake topper and candle is just beautiful! I hope you have a great weekend!
~Kelli

Grandma Faith said...

You are wise to cherish your wedding memories. I don't think there is any such thing as a "perfect" marriage, but I do believe you will be blessed for doing the best you can each and everyday.

Susanne said...

How sweet that is. I love the word picture that you put with it. Lovely. I wish that movie was coming to Canada but so far I haven't seen it listed. :v(

Maybe you didn't have many comments because bloglines hasn't been showing everyone's new posts. I for one did not have that one show as new. And I have some tell me I haven't shown any new posts all week thru bloglines.

Frazzled Mom said...

Thank you for sharing you beautiful wedding memories and marriage advice. We all need the reminder.

Grammy said...

How wonderful, I wish I still had mine. Thanks for sharing.

Tammy ~ Country Girl at Home ~ said...

Hey Tammy,

Sorry I missed posting on the last post. I'm behind on my blog reading! I would love to join in when I could on the sharing of homeschooling adventures. I may not always have anything interesting to share, but I'll do it when I can!

Also, love all the wedding memories! Didn't you just love the salt and pepper shaker on the top of the wedding cake on Fireproof? I think that was so cool!

Well have a great weekend, Tammy!

Tammy

Jill said...

How sweet that you found that cake topper couple. We didn't have one of those but I have several other wedding mementos that I cherish.

Anonymous said...

After moving to this house 4 yrs. ago I haven't found a spot for my wedding topper. But I still have it. I hope pass it on to my kids on their wedding day. I like starting tradions.

Sarah said...

Hi! Thanks for sharing your wedding treasures. Your cake topper reminds me of mine. I borrowed it from my Mom, and it looked so sweet on top of my cake. PS. I know how to make buttons!! And embed them! I've got the links that helped me in one of my posts. Visit me! I know there are several homeschool related memes, I don't know about a show and tell one, however.

Sarah said...

Here's the direct link....I posted so much more that all the linkies are at the bottom. I'll be happy to work with you more to help you get your button, just let me know!

http://sarahlcc.blogspot.com/2008/10/watermarking-and-computer-slavery.html

Sarah said...

I figured out how to make the button at Carissa's website. Sorry I didn't put this up here before....I was in the middle of posting & editing in Photobucket.

http://goodandcrazypeople.blogspot.com/2008/05/meme-tute.html

Anonymous said...

Thanks for coming by my blog. I like yours. It is very easy to read - not too crowded. Thank you for that!

Have a great Indian Summer (now Autumn! can you believe it!?) and I look forward to learning more about you.

Patty
http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/southofthefork/

Anonymous said...

Boy, I needed to read this post regarding marriage. I'm a big miffed right now and just reading this has caused my heart to soften. Bet you didn't know your written words could change someones life so easily :)

As for the button you wish you knew how to make, check with Leigh Ann at Mommaroar.blogspot.com. She is the queen of making these and loves to help others. If you don't blog with her just tell her I sent you :)

Lady Katherine said...

I loved how you talked about marriage. I been married for, will be 31 years this month. It is a work of art, that daily needs attending to. It takes you through the rough and good times. My husband is one of the best, for he has stayed at my side for the last five years and 39 surgeries. He is still loving caring man. I never thought he would be able to go through this, but as the first year we still we still have to reminder that its a give and take. Best wishes. Thanks for helping to remind how sweet marriage life can be.

Ruth said...

Don't forget I still have your wedding Bouquet that I keep putting out for you to take home.
Loved your post on marraige & am thankful to have had your dad for 30 years before he went to be with the Lord. Some were good years & others not so good but Love was there.

Dawn said...

I seriously can't remember what we had on top of our cake - I'll have to go look at the pictures, but still have the kids' here at my house. But the memories are strong on everything else!

I read your "least comments" post (I"m really behind!) and had to chuckle at the last comment by your kids - isn't it funny what they think is cool??

Kathi said...

Your wedding treasures are lovely. Thank you for sharing them. Kathi

Manuela@A Cultivated Nest said...

I enjoyed seeing your wedding treasures!

Manuela

Mary said...

Tammy,

The bride and groom cake topper is beautiful and like you say, with a little TLC, it will look like it did the day you and your husband got married.

I've been thinking about your home schooling idea. If you send me a photo or graphic and the words you'd like on it, I will make you a button if I can. If not, I know someone who can.

I would be willing to lend a hand with some craft ideas for kids or some science projects etc. I was manager of Kids' Korner at Suite101 for sometime and wrote Kids' Korner articles, plus History for Children, Science for Kids and one about Meeko and pets. Just let me know I'd be glad to help out when I can.

Have a great weekend.
Blessings,
Mary

Mary said...

Tammy,

My email addy is malward2002@yahoo.ca

Jennifer said...

Beautiful memories! Thanks for your thoughts. I really needed them right now.

Midlife Mom said...

What a great find! Maybe your girls will use that topper on their wedding cakes some day! Mine is tucked away in a trunk, I should get that trunk out of the attic and see what other momentos are in there. Marriage is a work in progress each and every day. So worth putting the time and effort into it. Never perfect but oh so worth it!!! Take care and thanks for always stopping by!

Carrie said...

How nice that you have these treasures as mementos of your wedding!

someone else said...

What a sweet show and tell! I have our cake topper in a drawer, but it's sadly in worse shape. It hasn't weathered the 38 years since it graced our wedding cake, but the marriage has endured beautifully.

Mommy said...

So sweet! Whenever we find something like that it brings back some sweet and fond memories, huh? And you're right about focusing on our spouse rather than on us. Thanks for the reminder.

I am hoping to see Fireproof sometime this week. :)

Sarah said...

Hi Tammy! You’re invited to “My Favorite Things Monday” inspired by the Sound of Music! You sharing a picture and story of your current ‘favorite thing’ that cheered you up when life got you down, would be a blessing! I hope you can come! http://www.sarahlcc.blogspot.com

Carla said...

What a neat topper! When you 'found' it again did it make you smile? Fireproof is on my list, and so is appreciating what I have-the best hubby in the world (for me;). Thank you for sharing, and forgiving me for not being a homeschooler (does it help that I hold you guys in the highest regard?) Thank you for sharing! And telling:)!

Anonymous said...

thanks for sharing your wedding cake topper. i love how the little bride and groom are holdin'on to each other.
fireproof was a good movie - i know it has blessed a lot of viewers.
nice to 'meet' you!
God bless
gail

Linda said...

A wonderful show and tell Tammy. You're right - it's so easy to get caught up in the "dailiness" of life and forget how very special our marriages are. This was a sweet reminder.

Denise said...

I have my wedding cake top sitting on my dresser with the ribbons and flowers.... It is a beautiful reminder that love, although sometimes rocky...... it never fails....

I enjoyed your pictures !

Sandy said...

Another great post Tammy!

Thanks for sharing!

Nadine said...

You made a beautiful bride. I still have my cake topper too. It's great to have those special memories.

Susannah said...

Unbelievable Tammy! I love the fact that you still have your unity candle and the figures from the top of your wedding cake.

We haven't had a chance to see Fireproof yet, but I'm so glad you went and loved it! Awesome.

Hugs, e-Mom

Nancy said...

Tammy~ I love your wedding cake topper, it reminds me of the one on our cake. I still have mine too. Such great memories and a reminder of how precious the longevity of marriage can be... especially if your still in love with your hubby! Keep it alive, you're doing the right thing, it's worth it!

I'm sorry, I'm a hit and miss blogger. I don't have bloglines so I just visit when I have the time. I do usually try to read the previous blogs that I missed... I just don't always comment. I wish I could help you on the linkies thing. Good luck with trying to do it.

Barb said...

I seriously need to go see Fireproof. I've been seeing rave reviews everywhere I go out here.

How sweet, to come across your cake topper - what great timing.

I love Grandma Faith's comment - so, so true.

groovyoldlady said...

I can post a link to your homeschool show and tell on my Homeschool group in Squidoo.

http://www.squidoo.com/groups/happyathome

My group page is a little lame right now - soon to be remedied (definitely before NaNoWriMo) but the group has 48 lens masters with 175 homeschool related lenses. It's a happenin' place!

Michelle said...

What a special find that must have been when you were cleaning out that pantry!

I'm not a homeschooler, so I wouldn't be participating, but I would certainly come see your posts on it! :)