
Yesterday, I asked my second grader where and what Washington D.C. was.
Her answer- which I'll get to in a moment- was a little disheartening.
Just what are they teaching kids these days in school, anyway?
Oh wait...in our family, I am the teacher!
But hold on... before I give home schooling a negative image, let me say that last year- our first home school year- we did in fact go over all of this vital information and much, much more.
I was so very determined to do this right, it being our very first year, and all...
So ...we read biographies of George Washington, his wife, Martha... studied the colonies, the pilgrims, Columbus, Betsy Ross, Abraham Lincoln...and even more recent figures such as Martin Luther King.
If it was important to American history, you can be sure we covered it. Honestly!
And geography? We did that, too. She actually enjoyed having us name a state so that she could try and find it on the big map last year.
We touched on the study of the hemispheres and continents... and even threw in all those oceans, for good measure!
And let's not forget that "talking globe" that her little sister got last Christmas. Nothing beats a little mini-world you can steer a plane around, as you learn about geography to the tune of putt-putt sounds.
And in my daughter's defense- she's actually a very smart girl. She even seemed to be enjoying hearing about pioneer kids or life with the Pilgrims, while all the time excelling in those faithful subjects, math and language arts.
Not to mention, memorizing all those Awana Bible verses!
Sometimes, I would even test her after we studied a subject, just to make sure she remembered it. And she almost always did!

Oh, where then, had I gone so terribly wrong?
After thinking this through the past twenty-four hours, I've decided that maybe...just maybe...she was able to retain only some of all the wonderful knowledge we gained last year. Um...after all...she was only in 1st grade. Hello? First grade!
My husband likes to say that he was just learning his ABC's how to tie his shoes in first grade! (And he has two degrees!)
Honestly, though...in my defense, it wasn't as if I completely overloaded the poor girl. Please don't envision me standing over her, tapping my ruler while I drilled those states and president facts. Our biographies were truly those kid-friendly kind.
And yes...she even had time to play with her My Little Ponies and watch mindless Disney movies on the side.
My other realization was that, just recently, her little brain was taxed this week while learning a new math concept. We're talking 2 digits multiplying with 2 digits, people...even my brain gets taxed just correcting the work!
So, I'm taking all of this into consideration as last night, at the library, I calmly added a children's learning video entitled, "Learning about Washington D.C." to the top of the stack.
I'm just so creative like that.
And, now that I've had time to think on all this, I am so much less flabbergasted at her answering what and where Washington D.C. is by saying,
"Isn't it that mall we went to?"
But at the time, my mind reeled...Huh?
Um...I'm remembered that there is the mall with the similar name as the capitol of our great nation, but no....try again.
"You know, Honey..." I urged. "All of our 50 states have capitols. But Washington D.C. is really important...and it's the capitol of somewhere very big..."
"Texas?"
SIGH...At least her granddad, born and bred in Amarillo, would have smiled.








33 comments:
BWAHAHA! Sorry... Couldn't help it! Score another one for us homeschool moms!
The mall! Cute....at least she's got her priorities in order, lol!
That is great! I loved your lead up too! I have to agree, she does have her priorities in order!! :D
Great post. At least she knows the important things like where the mall is (a girl has to know these types of important issues). Thank you for sharing this ... it made me smile...BTW I think homeschooling is awesome and anyone who does it is great. I know I couldn't have done it - so you get so much credit for how well and in various interesting ways you teach your children.
She remembered that Texas was a BIG state. I'd say that is pretty good. And to confuse it with a big mall. Well ... that girl is going places. Keep up the great work!
I smiled too! She's a sweetie!
You know, she's not too far off when she says "Texas."
What a hoot about the mall!
XO,
Jill
I'm impressed by all the things she has learned!! I wouldn't worry about not retaining every little thing. I'm sure you go over some of the same things each new year!
The mall line was so cute though!!
xo
Very funny! I think she's doing great. I applaud you. I couldn't have done it!
Are you taking the summer off now?
HaHa. How cute. Isn't that one of the great things about homeschooling? We realize we don't have to drill EVERYTHING into our children like is the norm in public schools. We're different for a reason. We can't know everything...and if we try, we won't be GREAT at anything.
I'm sorry.....I'm laughing so hard right now, only because I've been there....just when we think we've completed a topic, reality sets in. heheheh
Too funny!
Since Washington Square is your closest big Mall, I'm not surprised that she associated the name with the mall, a fact that your other readers who are not from this area might not have understood.
I'm very proud of the girls fo all they have learned, & of you for teaching them. I feel that the girls have really thrived on the homeschool experience, which also includes getting together with other homeschoolers. The field trips & other learning experiences they have had, have really added to their knowledge.
As a teacher for 32 years,and a mom for 25, let me assure you that you ARE doing everything humanly posssible to educate your child. You are a great mom and teacher and should take pride in the fact that you can wear so many "hats" all at one time (for no pay, might I add). That being said, kids will be kids and I bet she will never forget what "Washington, DC" is again. I think she is right. Isn't that big grassy space in Washington, DC called "The Mall"? What a precious daughter you have and so smart too! That is a blessing indeed.
That's too cute! Remember that people retain less than 40% of what they hear. So I'm guessing you're fine (and so is she)! Besides you have to love a little girl who cares about Malls!!!!
:-) Susan
LOL...gotta love 'em!
As a native Texan I agree with her--isn't everything about Texas!
As a teacher--I went with a group of fifth graders to Washington D.C. on a field trip several years ago. The girls in my small group were a little confused about THE MALL. They didn't understand a mall without stores!:)
Very cute. It sounds right to me!! Ha! Naw...it is a little woman's idea of what Washington D.C. should be....
"Isn't it that mall we went to?"
Oh, that just cracks me up something fierce. I can just hear one of my grandchildren of that same age saying something similar.
Don't you worry, Teacher Mom, you just keep plugging away getting that info into those little brains. It will pay off sooner or later.
Pretty good logic for a first grader!!! I think we always "worry" if we're doing enough. Do lots of reading, snuggling and be consistant...you'll all do fine!
there is a mall in washington DC.... right between Lincoln Mon and Wash monument.
So the kid WAS CORRECT. YES!!! I will be her advocate -- and teach her how to put frogs in her teacher desk.
croak!
For all you homeschool moms out there- If you missed watching it, the National Spelling Bee which was broadcast on ABC tonight(thursday) was won by a homeschool boy. The words were difficult & ones I had never heard of, but it shows that homeschoolers are well taught by you moms.
Cute story.
Susan
That was fun to read!!!
I can't tell...are you deciding to relax a bit on the rigors of elementary academia?
Have you read Charlotte Mason's writings or any of the modern helps based on her observations? I highly recommend them!
Can I be bold from my own experience for a minute? You must STOP RIGHT NOW the taxing of her mind with abstract math concepts like multiplication. Teaching math too early is the single worst thing I believe our society does in the educating of our youngsters. Generally and scientifically speaking, my understanding is that their minds are not developed for it at that age. You can certainly teach the mechanics, but it will be in vain because the ability to truly understand just isn't there...yet.
It might only teach them to hate math.
Ha! That really is cute. At least she knows you don't mess with Texas.
How cute. Don't be hard on yourself...you are doing a great job! I'm in Texas, so I'm just tickled pink about her second answer!
GB...thanks for your insight.
I know there are so many different theories out there. However, she totally loves math, and just seems to grasp the concepts quickly. I never was crazy about math, myself...but she is.
And yes, I think we all learn as we go along- what works for our individual kids and what doesn't...so to answer your question, yes, we plan on slowing down on the info a bit.
But I am not about to slow down in an area where she's thriving, and does, indeed, understand.
I hope most of my readers know that I wrote this with my tongue firmly planted in cheek...I hope you knew, too!
Okay, really I am smiling at this. A big goofy grin! That is simply fabulous!
Funny, we have just been discussing the need to teach a little US history and geography to our kids in a homeschoolish way. Although, I am pleased with it, an INTERNATIONAL education is not drilling them on the presidents/states/capitals/history of the good 'ol USA.
Any pointers for me? Curriculum to recommend?
Hey Tammy...
I got your messages--here and over at my place. Forgive me if I sounded heavy-handed; it was not my intention. When someone gave me the same advice years ago, it was a tremendous relief.
Above all else I believe that God gave your children to you because you are specially equipped to raise them toward His purpose for them.
And with regard to learning and making mistakes...I'm finishing my 7th year, and am still making mistakes and learning from them! lol. But it's all good. The Lord "has my back" on that--so to speak. Even my mistakes won't thwart His magnificent purposes.
Blessings to you and your delightful daughters!
Ah - a girl after my own heart. Isn't Texas the capital of the world? I'm pretty sure that's right.
I'm sure you're doing a super job teaching your sweet little girl. We all have those moments where the facts just get away from us.
This was a really cute post Tammy. You tell a wonderful story.
Have a great weekend.
There are days when I'm not sure I could answer that question correctly! I'm firmly convinced that I've reached the point that for every new thing I try to learn, something else has to be forgotten to make room for it.
It's been a while since you visited my blog. It was nice to see your (smiling?) um....eye, LOL! in my comments. ;-)
Hugs,
Diane
2 DIGITS? Wow! I'm impressed, but I also know how you feel.
In Maine we're required to have a yearly assesment of one type or another. The first few years with the older two I had teacher friend come over and give them a fun test.
At least it was fun until she showed Funsocksgirl, age nine, very smart a cyclinder and said, "What type of figure is this?"
"Um....uh...a can?"
AAAAck! homeschool failure!!! Guess what we studied all through that summer vacation?
pyramids, cylinders, spheres, cubes. She's all grown up now and guess what? She remembers them all.
Whew!
She sounds like she already knows a lot for her age. And isn't everything in Texas? :)
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